Update on the situation (as requested)
Currently I am home alone. My two roomies - let’s just call them P (the nice one) and C (the terrorizing/harassing one) are both gone. P left to be with her grandmother for a few days, and I don’t know where C is.
It’s nice to be home alone to get some energy back. As soon as this terrorizing and threatening started I went straight into my ‘soldier’-mood as I call it. I haven’t had it in years, now, because the last few years have been rather peaceful. But that’s basically that I can’t eat - because I’ll get sick, and I can’t sleep because I don’t know what C might do. C haven’t really attacked me directly or seriously in any way, but I can’t just stand and watch her attack P! Of course I can’t! C tries to manipulate me by crying to milk sympathy from me, and it just makes me sick. I’ve seen that too many times in my life - and crocodile tears doesn’t work on me. I know the situation. I’ve both overheard and directly witnessed how she’s been calling P a “cunt” and a “whore” - in addition to trying to get P to hit her (so that she can get P punished for it).
C has absolutely no respect for P. She even tried to lock her out of the flat (?!) and C walked up in P’s face, provoking P.
I had no idea that confronting C with her stealing and lack of responsibility would result in this. Because, as mentioned in my previous post, that is how this all started. C was caught red-handed taking P’s stuff.
So, where am I in all this?
Well. I have to take care of P, first of all. Late last night the poor girl came into my room, shaking and crying. We had a long talk, she eventually calmed down, and we had some ice cream and watched Fish Tank.
I’ve also had to make it clear for C that the things she’s doing are illegal, and I’ve informed her about the punishments (law) for the things she is doing. So far C has threatened to accuse P of being violent towards her (which has never happened - we all know that). To falsely accuse someone is a serious crime. C has been downright terrorizing, provoke and harassing P which is mental abuse, and is a crime just like physical abuse.
P has threatened and yelled at me too - but somehow it seems that I am much more scarier to C than P is. Maybe because I am generally a really easy-going person, but I just change completely if I’m a victim of bullshit like this. I told her that if I hear her throw things around in the flat in anger, calling P a ‘cunt’ or a ‘whore’ again, I swore I would call the police. Which I would’ve done. I would’ve called them, explained the situation - and they would probably pop by. (And they would probably talk to all three of us, and then leave as things cooled down - but C probably imagined they would take her away :P)
The worst part is just watching how she is breaking P down.
So, it is a bit rude to say this, but… I hope C doesn’t come home in a few days. I don’t want to live with a person abusing others mentally like that. As a child raised in abuse I’ve just got no patience with such behaviour at all.
…And now I can hear C coming home.
P.S: My ask box isn’t working, so if leave a comment instead.
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